Vol. 01 · Pre-Orders Open · Ships in 8 Weeks

For the part of your 40s nobody sent the memo on.

Perry is a 100-card deck for the woman in perimenopause and the partner trying to find her again. Real prompts. Honest conversations. Zero pastels.

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100 Cards · A Two Mode Deck
Perry.
For the woman in perimenopause and the partner trying to find her again.
For You · For Both Vol. 01
Why Perry exists

Your hormones got rewritten. Your sex life is improvising. Nobody handed you the script.

Perimenopause can last up to ten years. During that time your libido, your body, your sleep, your patience, and your sense of who you are in bed all start shifting at once. Most women navigate it alone. Most partners have no idea what's actually happening.

The wellness industry sells you a lubricant and a supplement and calls it solved. Perry doesn't. Perry hands you and your partner the conversations nobody taught either of you to have.

A taste of the deck

Six cards. The other ninety-four are worth waiting for.

For You№ 002
Vaginal dryness is a tissue change, not a personality flaw. What would shift if you fully believed that?
Body
For You№ 013
Have you been faking being fine? Faking interest? Faking orgasms? Just for you, no one else: which one, and how long?
Unsaid
For You№ 033
The perimenopausal rage is real. What is yours actually trying to tell you?
Symptoms
For Both№ 044
My libido isn't gone. It's contextual. Help me build the conditions instead of waiting for the spark.
Translate
For Both№ 072
Right now I don't really want sex. That's the truth. What I do still want is this.
Stuck
For Both№ 091
No sex tonight. Just kissing. Like we're 16 again and that's all we're allowed to do.
Experiments
What's in the box

A real deck. Not a wellness app. Built to live on your nightstand.

Designed in the US. Printed on premium card stock. Custom tuck box. Two modes in one deck so it's giftable to her, to a friend, or to the two of you together.

100Cards
40For You
60For Both
9Categories
First Edition · Limited to 1,000

Pre-order Vol. 01. Ships in 8 weeks.

Founding edition pricing. Numbered first run. Your deck ships within eight weeks of ordering, straight to your door.

Founding Edition $29.99$34.99
100 cards · Custom tuck box · Free US shipping · Ships in 8 weeks
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By placing this pre-order you agree that all sales are final. Vol. 01 ships within 8 weeks of order date. You will receive an order confirmation and tracking by email.

Questions, asked honestly

The things nobody tells you, answered.

Mostly, yes. The deck is built for women in their 30s and 40s navigating perimenopause. But Side B is designed to be played with a partner of any gender, so the deck works for anyone in a relationship with a perimenopausal woman who wants to actually understand what's happening and reconnect.
It's honest. There are intimate cards, but the deck is designed for couples whose desire has shifted, not couples already having mind-blowing sex. There's a "Tiny Experiments" section that's purposely low-pressure for nights when sex isn't on the table. The point isn't to push you into bed. It's to help you find each other again.
Every other intimacy deck on the market treats you like you're 28 in a brand new relationship. Perry is the only deck designed specifically for the body, the libido, and the relationship in perimenopause. About a quarter of the cards include a small education tip tucked under the prompt, so you're learning while you're talking.
No. Perry is a conversation deck, not a medical product. The educational tips are there to start conversations, normalize what you're experiencing, and give you language. For anything clinical, please talk to a perimenopause-literate doctor (we know, they're hard to find).
Within eight weeks of your pre-order. We're printing the founding run after pre-orders close, so every deck is fresh off the press. You'll get tracking the moment yours leaves our hands.
Founding edition pricing. Pre-order customers get the first numbered run at $29.99. After Vol. 01 ships and we move to standard inventory, retail will be $34.99. The early believers get the better price. That's the deal.